How To Be Polite?

1)Be gentle, not forceful or insistent

*It means that when you do something, offer something, or make a request, you do it without pressuring the people around you and making them feel like they're being pushed into a corner.

*If you're having a conversation, it's one thing to ask a question or offer your opinion, but it's rude to push the matter when someone has expressed discomfort (verbally or non-verbally) about the subject.

2) Be nice

*Treat everyone the same way, even if you are not fond of them. Never make any enemies. Always be courteous, you might meet this person again in another setting and wouldn't want to have caused negative memories that would give you a bad standing.

3) Shake hands firmly and look your acquaintance in the eye.

*You might want to practice this a bit so you don't squish people's hands, depending on how strong you are. That would make them feel uncomfortable. Beware especially when shaking hands of women who are wearing rings. Too much pressure can be very painful. For muslim just shake hands between women and women, man and man.

4) Have a laugh which shows you are having fun, without being loud.

*Loudness either indicates arrogance or insecurity. A charming polite person makes another person feel good. Keep this goal in mind, be considerate of other people's needs and opinions. Don't make derogatory remarks towards any kind of ethnic, political or religious groups under any circumstances.

How to practise courtesy?

What is mean by courtesy?Courtesy is a polite, good manners and respect to other people.Peoples nowadays have loose their respectful to other people especially to older people.Other than that, they also have loose their manners wether on the road, to their friends, and etc. So, i would like to suggest you on how to practise courtesy.

Try to be kind elderly. Give up your seat at the train or in a train. Of course if you are eight month pregnant you need to sit down. Same as if you are like our grandparents who are not strongly like you when young, you also need a sit. When you gave someone more need than you, just give it. You will feel better after you help them.

Hold open the doors for people. It may seem small, but it doesn't need a energy or time, and someone open the door with a smile can make someone's day!. Helping or just being courteous can make you feel good about yourself.

In traffic, just keep reminding that person who just cut you off was probably have a bad day. Let others in front of you when there is a back up.

Offers to be friends to people you known for even short time or who you know are going through a tough time.

Then the mist important is kindly begins at home. Obey your parents if you are kid and do your chores and homework. If you are grown up, call your parents in a while at least 5 minutes a day.

In conclusion, courtesy is important to have a good relations with other people and being respectful person.